Well, that is it I have finally woken up and started to realize the only person who can make my life better is me. I have gone from 21 stone to now 13 stone 6 so I am doing great, but also going through a divorce and trying to juggle work around things, it has taken me a few months to see I need to start seriously taking getting fit seriously.
I don’t know if the Coronavirus also triggered me to start getting in shape, because is this going to be the last of this type of illness? I don’t find it will be. I just find the fitter you are the fewer effects you will have. People with stronger immune systems seem to not have as many problems. It’s just been a crazy two years for me. One minute my life was typical marriage day to day life, to then getting divorced. I don’t wish to go into why I am divorcing I find we just fell out of love, it was that simple really.
A New Chapter
Well, now I have finally finished with the all feel sorry rubbish for me, knowing that it doesn’t get you anywhere. It is time to start putting a plan in action. I need new goals, new aims, new friends, people on the same business level, instead of hanging with people who are negative. You shouldn’t change an image, get fit, become a businesswoman. They are the ones I need to nowadays say goodbye too. I need mentors who want to help me, I need friends who don’t want to put labels on things and I need to totally reinvent myself.
Wouldn’t it be great if you could reinvent yourself as you saw fit? Many of us have made so many mistakes in our lives that “hope” becomes a four-letter word. When you are seemingly fighting in all directions just to survive, even against yourself at times, it is tough to implement or follow a worthwhile success program. But these are the times that are the most important for you. For in these trials lies the secret that serves as the catalyst which will propel you to heights never before imagined. The truth that you can stop being who you don’t want to be. Stop attracting what you are fighting against. Stop allowing your circumstances to determine how you feel. And from this learn who you want to be and choose to BE it!
Before you learn how to reinvent yourself you need to learn WHY you need to in the first place. For many, it is merely a matter of patience. Waiting for something to happen before choosing to feel good about it is an endless road to failure. You will never achieve anything by this method. Anyone who has ever accomplished anything has first “felt” how wonderful it would feel to possess the thing first BEFORE they actually held it. This is how everything is gained even though most of us do not realize it. If you choose to wait until you have it you are inadvertently focusing on the feelings associated with NOT having it! This signal is interpreted by the universe as a command and you will be given what you asked for, you will not have it no matter how hard you “try”. As frustrating as this cycle becomes, it is equated to how much of your life you have allowed falling into it. It is simply mental laziness and fortunately, it can be cured, quite easily in fact, once you acknowledge it and take responsibility for your thoughts!
WELL, NOWADAYS IT IS TIME I REINVENT ME………